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I’ve been on a mission to reduce clutter in our house lately, thanks to reading Organized Simplicity (another book born out of a blog, Simple Mom), Simplicity Parenting (a book which now has a blog), The Happiness Project (a book which spawned a blog as it was being written) and the more extreme The Minimalists (a blog which launched an e-book).

If you were to come and visit our house, you’d know that we don’t have a cluttered house (the garage however…).  I like minimalism but definitely not to the point of starkness.  However, things naturally build up over time without a regular assessment and clean out.  I went through my wardrobe and drawers in a series of rounds (it got easier to let go of sentimental pieces) and donated a very big stack of clothes I hadn’t worn in ages – some as many as 12 years ago!

It felt great to do a big clean out, but more importantly, it is actually helping me make every day a little bit easier:

By reducing the apparent options available, my actual choices became less stressful and quicker to make.

On the whole, it doesn’t seem like too much to have to hunt around for a few moments to find what you’re looking for in a drawer or closet, but that little bit of time is reduced when there’s less to rummage through.

Research shows that people get overwhelmed and stressed by too many choices and end up making impulse decisions.

I’ve been pondering also about online clutter and how it can create stressful situations and increase the time it takes to complete a simple task.  Do people end up just clicking on something (the “Back” button?) just to get out of there and go back to the familiar?  Do they randomly click on a link and hope it shows what they want because they’re just so overwhelmed?

Are we enticed by the idea of providing lots of choices, but forget the time and stress cost of the associated decision making?

In 2011, I added Pinterest, Book DepositoryGood Reads and Dribbble to the list of regular sites I visit.

I discovered Pinterest early 2011 and had to wait a little while for an invitation.  I loved it because a couple of friends who have incredible taste and style were on there already and it was fun to see where they got their inspiration from.  It quickly became my go-to for ideas for gifts, decorating, fashion, food and quotes.  I used to go to Flickr for these sorts of ideas, but I hardly go there now.

A friend told me about Book Depository in 2010 and it’s now replaced Amazon for most of my book purchases, thanks to its free shipping (which seems to be faster coming from the UK) and regular coupons.  In July it was bought out by Amazon, but as far as I’m able to tell, nothing has changed there to date.  For ages, I got confused about whether the site was the Book Depository or the Book Repository.

I had joined Good Reads in 2009, but rediscovered it as I started reading a lot again in November.  It helped that a couple of friends were also using it, and I liked to be able to talk with them about the books we are reading.  I used to use Amazon for ideas of what to read next, but in 2011, with my purchasing heading away from Amazon, so did my recommendations source. (I do still use Amazon for their Top Lists, and for price comparisons with Book Depository.)

I’ve known about Dribbble for quite a while too, but in 2011 it became a site I’d go to for color and trends inspiration.  I am a member (I think) but am just one of the observers for now.  When I design, I like to get feedback from a few trusted people and would find it quite a change in work process to throw ideas out to a wider audience when they’re still being worked on.  I can imagine it is a great community for those who need that kind of feedback though.

What did you add to your list of regular sites you visit in 2011?

I’ve just finished reading Design*Sponge at Home by Grace Bonney, based on her popular interior design blog Design*Sponge. I discovered her blog five years ago and it’s gone from strength to strength and it’s a delight to see that the book (which is beautifully put together) made Amazon’s Top 10: Best Books of 2011: Art & Photography.

I really enjoyed reading Bonney’s introduction to the book (merely two pages of the 390 page book), which is a familiar story for many of the early blogs which went on to enjoy such success: “I had no idea how my life would change when I clicked a button on the screen that said PUBLISH”.

The driving factor for her in started the blog was to “connect with people like myself… Even though no one joined in the discussion at first… I didn’t care because I loved having an outlet where I could write about my passions. I was thrilled to have an outlet to express my love of design…It made me feel less like the crazy girl in the room who’s always going on about cool wallpaper. And yet, as it turns out, I wasn’t alone… Within weeks, my blog was eliciting comments and e-mails and I felt like I was connecting with a community that I didn’t even know existed. We started having online conversations about the kinds of things I previously thought interested only me…”.

She says she was “going on and on” about design until her boyfriend said “Hey, have you ever thought about starting a blog about design? Maybe you could use it as a writing sample or a portfolio and use it to apply for a job at a magazine one day?”

A passion shared and then joy and surprise at a newly found (and formed) community.

“And then one day I realized that what began as my own personal blog had become the design magazine I had always wanted to read – and work for.”

Bonney grew up wanting to be a journalist for a newspaper, and ended up creating the job of her dreams. I love it!

Reading her book reconfirmed to me that the best blogging (and writing in general) is by people passionate about their subject matter. People who write for the love of it, even if no-one else is reading.

I love this quote by Harlan Ellison:

“The second secret, what they never tell you, is that yes, anyone can become a blogger. The trick is not to become a blogger, it is to stay a blogger. Day after day, year after year, post after post. And for that, you must keep working, even when it seems beyond you. In the words-to-live-by of Thomas Carlyle, ‘Produce! Produce! Were it but the pitifullest infinitesimal fraction of a Product, produce it in God’s name! ‘Tis the utmost thou has in thee: out with it, then. Up, up! Whatsoever thy hand findeth to do, do it with thy whole might. Work while it is called Today; for the Night cometh, wherein no man can work.’”

(I have adapted it by replacing “writer” replaced by “blogger” and “book” with “post”.)

There for the love of it.

January 5 2012
by Rachel

It’s been almost ten years since I discovered blogs and quickly afterwards began blogging myself. Back then, it seemed almost possible to be able to navigate all the blogs in the world and bloggers in various topical areas knew each other well. Blogging tools weren’t all that user-friendly back then, and it was still a somewhat geeky domain with a whole new set of terminology (XML, RSS, pings, trackbacks, permalinks, cgi scripts, …)

It’s been just over ten years since Movable Type was released, the second big blogging tool which came along after Blogger. Movable Type was wonderfully empowering and yet utterly frustrating. Changing your blog’s design meant long rebuilds of pages and learning a new limited templating language. A regular problem was dealing with mysterious cgi server errors and deciphering perl code. Some things haven’t changed though: the rewards of regular commenters was mixed with the frustration of dealing with spam (the defenses against it have improved but still cause headaches) and trolls who would write hurtful feedback.

Back then, people were’t in it for the advertising dollars, or the money or a book deal. They weren’t there to promote their company, brand or product. They were there for the love of it. They were there because they had something to say and a decent proportion of the whole world was able to hear it for the first time. The idea of a soapbox in front of the world was a new and alluring concept. It required quite a bit of technical knowhow to get a blog up and running; especially a Movable Type one.

Ten years on, creating a new blog is just a few clicks away and it doesn’t seem revolutionary at all. There’s millions of blogs, the idea of a global audience isn’t at all amazing or probably not even very inspiring for starting a new one.

Yet for all the online fads which have come and gone, blogs have continued to flourish.

Bloggers are still breaking stories, opening their hearts and lives, teaching and sharing insights and encouraging others. Companies are expected to have a blog as part of their corporate site.  News media have embraced blogs (albeit being threatened by them at the same time).

Facebook and Twitter have not stopped people blogging. In fact, a number of New Year’s resolutions I’ve seen talk about blogging more.

I can’t wait to see where blogging goes in the next ten years!

Happy New Year!

January 4 2012
by Rachel

I love the start of the new year. Not the countdown-to-midnight per se, but the promise of a fresh new beginning, crisp new blank stationery (some girls have a shoe thing, mine’s stationery). It’s also a quiet time of year after the busyness of the Christmas holiday period. Down here in New Zealand, it’s summer. The days are long, the smell of BBQs is in the air and fresh produce and herbs stack up in the kitchen.

I’m not a big one normally for new years resolutions: they’re given a bit of a bad rep because they’re so often doomed to fail; especially the weight loss or exercise kind. However, people can and do change, they can make fresh starts and can work to improve on their flaws.

After reading The Happiness Project, a quote of Benjamin Franklin’s has stuck in my head:

“on the whole, though I never arrived at the perfection I had been so ambitious of obtaining, but fell far short of it, yet as I was, by the endeavor, a better and a happier man than I otherwise should have been had I not attempted it.”

So this year, I made some goals and one was to read 52 books in a year. Running my own business, being a mum to two young boys and keeping on top of life in general meant I relegated one of my loves (reading) to summer vacations. I didn’t wait until the new year to start reading again with a passion – I picked it up in November and have been averaging a book or more a week since. One downside was that I discovered I need reading glasses in the process!

What does reading books and New Year’s resolutions have to do with blog design? I think that I’m often too focussed and “heads down” to get inspiration, perspective and ideas from completely different fields in life. Reading gives me new things to think about, get passionate about and talk about with others. And, that’s what blogging ultimately boils down to: writing about something you’re passionate about and talking about it with others.

I’ve found that I get the best design inspiration too, when I’m not looking at online website design galleries!

If you’re curious about what I’m reading, head over to Good Reads.

Wherever you are, I wish you a very Happy New Year and may 2012 be full of hope and new things!

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