The Secrets of the (Blogger’s) Bedroom

July 23, 2006

Last year I read Malcolm Gladwell’s book entitled Blink and since then, one study he described resonated with me and has popped up in my mind numerous times.

He describes an experiment done by psychologist Samuel Gosling which had 80 college students fill in a personality questionnaire about themselves. He then had their close friends fill in the same questionnaire. Gosling then used total strangers who had never met the students they were judging to fill in another questionnaire after spending 15 minutes looking around the student’s dorm room.

What did he discover? The strangers were not very accurate at measuring extraversion or agreeableness (how helpful and trusting someone is). However, they were more accurate than the friends were at measuring conscientiousness, emotional stability and their openness to new experiences. On balance, the strangers ended up doing a much better job.

Gladwell writes:

What this suggests is that it is quite possible for people who have never met us and who have spent only twenty minutes thinking about us to come to a better understanding of who we are than people who have known us for years. Forget the endless “getting to know” meetings and lunches, then. If you want to get a good idea of whether I’d make a good employee, drop by my house one day and take a look around.

Gosling says that a person’s bedroom shows:

  1. Identity claims: how we would like to be seen by the world.
  2. Behavioural residue: inadvertant clues we leave behind (dirty laundry on the floor, alphabetized CD collection etc)
  3. Thoughts and feelings regulators: changes we make to our most personal spaces to affect the way we feel when we inhabit them: a scented candle in the corner, decorative pillows etc.

By looking at someone’s bedroom, or house - and not just what they own, but what they don’t own - you learn so much about a person.

I remember some of the bedrooms and houses of people I’ve gone to visit - sometimes I barely knew the person yet their rooms made a lasting impression and I could guess a lot about the person they would be, had I got to know them better. We recently had some people over to our house who we’d known for some time but as they entered our house, they started making comments about how they liked the furniture and space etc. Entering into someone’s house for the first time is fun - so many things to observe and take in.

I’ve been thinking about how this applies to blog and web design. Blogs are often deeply personal - full of deep thoughts and inner feelings. MySpace users spend hours working updating their page and customising it to be unique and to express who they are.

But I’ve a feeling that the tools often hinder our dreams.

Unlike a bedroom where you can push around furniture, buy a new piece of art to hang on the wall or paint the walls without too much skill required, blog and web design is still - despite recent advances - often a frustrating experience for people. So blog templates are common and everyone’s bedroom looks rather familiar and unintriguing.

Yes, blogs aren’t all about the design but imagine if going to a new blog was always like visiting someone’s house for the first time: something which immediately expresses so much about the personality of the blogger you’re visiting.

If you looked around your lounge or bedroom and took photographs of five things which expressed something of those three items above, what would they be and why? Are there items you have thought about adding to your blog’s design to make it seem more like an expression of you? What would they be?

Comments
  1. I’d bet on this - You could tell more about somebody by looking at their bedroom than you can by their blog design…since some of us talentless people have to get someone else to do our design and have no control over the finished product.

    I can make my bedroom look like I want it to. My blog design ? Not a freakin’ chance !

    Mike, July 23, 2006

  2. What about married couples? Does the bedroom test show a shared pattern or just the one that handles the cleaning chores?

    Patrick Grote, July 23, 2006

  3. my bedroom looks like a woman’s bedroom….. not sure what that says about me :-)

    Darren, July 23, 2006

  4. Patrick: interesting question! I know the bedroom that I share with my partner is, on the surface at least, very much my space still - he moved in with me, rather than us starting somewhere fresh together. I suspect, however, that if a stranger came and looked round it, it would be fairly obvious that it was a shared room and they would be able to pick up clues about both of us.

    Good post, Rachel - it’s definitely got me thinking.

    Katja, July 24, 2006

  5. With blogs too, I usually do NOT see your design, I read you in Bloglines - plain vanilla blog in RSS with almost no design ;-)

    BUT I still usually get a strong impression of a person, from the words and pictures…

    Tim Bulkeley, July 24, 2006

  6. I’ve been married now for 4+ years, plus 10 month old baby. I think you can go to our bedroom and see we are a married couple with a baby, but I would argue you would learn more about my wife than me. Why? She has more stuff and decorated the room. But you will know which nightstand is mine…

    Interesting comment Tim. As with blogs I think I get to know the person based on their posts. Even when they are not personal you get a feel for their personality through their style of writing. Afterall, most blog entries are diary like.

    Another interesting idea are people who are aware of this whole image theory. They actively try to control how they are portrayed by decorating their room or blog to send a certain message. But that opens a whole other can of worms, doesn’t it…

    John Labriola, July 25, 2006

  7. Excellent thoughts! Your posts are always very intriguing…

    Ryan, July 25, 2006

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  9. Is it true that most people online make their impression of a site in about 3 seconds?

    I would think we assume things about bloggers quite quickly, given most blogs are individual.

    I tend to notice whether or not the blogger has ads - and I wonder if they need them to help them stay online or whether money is rather important.
    Odd. But that honestly is one of my first thoughts.
    And I tend to have to concentrate on blocking the advertising and concentrate on what the blogger is saying.

    The five pictures would be:

    1) The lazy boy
    2) The lighting
    3) The bed frame
    4) The dust bunnies
    5) The ornamentation - I used to collect wolves and sheep: various sizes, shapes and materials from clay, wood, to wool. Sheep are placed in stray places.
    One of my favorites is a woolly little black fellow from NZ.:^)

    BD, July 27, 2006